Being left .
You don’t want to commit yourself because you’re afraid that someone you trust will turn away from you and leave you.
With a broken heart, you don’t get along very well, which is actually surprising because you can get almost everything under control.
You may not even be aware of this fear, but it is definitely the reason why you break up first and run away as soon as you sense problems.
You love to plan everything in advance.
You want to know what’s coming up so you can prepare for any situation.
If something happens suddenly or if something changes, you cannot cope with it.
You are used to having everything under control, but if something gets out of your control, you lose yourself completely.
And that’s your biggest fear.
You are the queen of exaggerated thought.
You can turn any problem into an even bigger one if you let your mind go nuts.
The biggest problem is you.
No matter what challenge you face, you immediately start to think that you are not good enough.
Basically, you sabotage yourself before you even start.
This toxic thought pulls you away from success.
Usually you give in to your feelings and that makes you powerless.
Things happen that are beyond your control.
And no matter how hard you try to get it back, your emotions won’t allow it.
This loss of control is driving you crazy, but there’s nothing you can do about it because your emotional side has always been much stronger than your rational side.
The future .
You are fine at the moment, maybe even more than just good.
You have everything under control, you are the star of the show, the first in the race.
This situation is exactly what you want and where you are happy.
But what the future holds is uncertain and you are afraid of it.
You are afraid that everything you have may evaporate.
On the one hand, you are unhappy because you are alone, but on the other hand, you cannot be with anyone because you cannot relax and cannot open yourself to this person.
It is difficult for you to be vulnerable and honest.
This closeness is what scares you the most and, paradoxically, what is most lacking.
If you think about it, you sabotage your own happiness.
Some would say that this is absolutely not true because scales are extremely sociable and friendly.
It’s true, you can be friends with everyone; it’s not a problem for you.
But what scares you the most is that you won’t be able to please anyone.
You are afraid of socialization if it goes wrong.
I mean, you are an adorable person and there is nothing that you cannot like about you, but there will always be some hater who will not like your lively manner and that’s okay.
Nobody would ever expect this secret fear, would they?
You look so wild and fearless from the outside.
You look like nothing can hurt or touch you, but what many people don’t know is that you are incredibly emotional and sensitive.
When you fall in love, you want it to be real, true love, and you act that way.
You put everything you have in the relationship, so it is only logical that you are most afraid of lovesickness.
You find it very important that people always think the best of you.
You don’t want to do anything wrong in front of anyone because it could convict you.
You are most afraid of that.
That’s why you sometimes seem cold and distant – but only because you don’t want to say or do anything wrong and you don’t want to give people material to judge you.
Well, this isn’t a big surprise.
Everyone knows that you are a hardworking and persistent person.
Nothing and nobody can stop you from realizing your dreams and achieving your goals.
Since you are so good at your success rate, your biggest fear is failure.
Imagine you can’t finish something you started.
Oh what a horror!
How can you not like you
How can someone say no to your adorable face?
That is why you are always single.
It is also difficult to explain your sometimes too rational attitude, so that not everyone will throw you off when they get to know you a little better.
Maybe it’s because of your experience so far, maybe it’s the way you see the world.
One thing is certain – you are incredibly afraid of rejection.
You are in deep contact with your emotional side.
Spirituality is very important to you, and basically nothing material is important to you.
You would be happiest if you had someone who loved you, but just the way you wanted to be loved.
This is your biggest mistake.
You don’t want to commit yourself in case it doesn’t go as you expected it to.
Well, unfortunately, you can’t teach anyone how to love you.
You did not create the world in which you live.
You are here with everyone else, so show some respect and broaden your horizons.