1. Aries (March 21 – April 19)
Obviously, you are most frightened at the idea of having to slow down your life for the sake of your partner and your relationship. As an Aries, you tend to live life on the fast lane. And that means that you don’t typically like to slow down for anyone. But what if you have a partner who can’t keep up with you? The thought of having to adjust really frightens you.
2. Taurus (April 20 – May 21)
You are scared about having your trust and loyalty for someone be betrayed. As a Taurus, it really takes a lot for a person to earn your trust and respect. You are very stubborn and you rarely ever give in. But once someone does manage to earn your loyalty, you stay loyal for life. You would go to the ends of the earth for this person; but that’s why it would hurt so much for someone to betray your trust.
3. Gemini (May 22 – June 21)
You are scared of confronting who you really are on the inside; and that’s something that you’re going to be forced to do in a relationship. Being a Gemini, you are just so used to adjusting your personality depending on the situation that you’re in and the people that you’re with. But when you’re in a relationship with someone, you will really be forced to just be yourself; and you’re scared of what that’s going to mean for you.
4. Cancer (June 22 – July 22)
As a Cancer, you are deathly afraid of getting hurt in a relationship. You are afraid of putting yourself in a position of vulnerability just because of how intensely you feel pain. You rarely ever like to put your insecurities on full display. And when you’re in a relationship, it scares you at how much you’re going to have to expose about your life.
5. Leo (July 23 – August 22)
The one thing that you are most scared of in a relationship is getting your thunder taken away from you. As a Leo, you always want to be the one who is in the limelight. But what if you end up in a relationship with someone who just happens to outshine you? Do you choose to stay in love or do you try to outdo your partner? That’s a terrible dilemma you don’t want to have to deal with.
6. Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
As a Virgo, you are most terrified of having your plans broken by your relationship. You are a perfectionist and you have a certain way of doing things. But being in a relationship is going to mean that you will have to adjust every once in a while – and that really frightens you.
7. Libra (September 23 – October 22)
Naturally, as a Libra, what frightens you the most in a relationship is having someone fall out of love with you. You are a desperate people-pleaser. And once you manage to get into peoples’ good graces, you never want to be out of it. You always try your best to be on a person’s good side. And it frightens you to think that you could ever disappoint the people you love.
8. Scorpio (October 23 – November 22)
As a Scorpio, you are frightened at how much you have to reveal about yourself in a relationship. You are a natural observer; but not a sharer. You like to really take notice of the things that are going on around you but you don’t like to share much about yourself. And that’s something that you’re going to have to do in relationships.
9. Sagittarius (November 23 – December 21)
Of course, you are scared of having your freedom as a Sagittarius stripped away from you. As a Sagittarius, you always want to be roaming the world and living life the way that you want it. You don’t want to be made to feel like you are being tied down or domesticated; and you’re worried that being in a relationship is going to keep you from being who you want to be.
10. Capricorn (December 22 – January 20)
As a Capricorn, you have lots on your plate. You are a hard worker; and you’re most afraid of the idea of your relationship only serving as a distraction to you. You want to desperately focus on achieving your dreams and you’re scared that your relationship might sidetrack you to a certain degree.
11. Aquarius (January 21 – February 18)
It comes to no one’s surprise that you’re most afraid of the idea of having to confront your feelings; and having to express them to your partner. As an Aquarius, you aren’t very emotional. You tend to live life under principles of logic and reason. However, love is an emotional game; and you’re going to have to learn to play.
12. Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
As a Pisces, you are most afraid of the idea of love not living up to your standards. You have hyped love up so much in your own mind that you have grand expectations for it. Unfortunately, you also know that you might be reaching for the stars and you are afraid of being disappointed.