Look at her. You’re probably thinking that I must be out of my mind for telling you that a girl whom you think to be ‘too much’ could be anything else but a burden. Believe me when I say that she will blow your world because she’s everything that you need.
She’s too opinionated, too loud, too happy, too sensitive, too fragile, too tough, too loving and too caring. She’s ‘too much’ of everything at the same time and you’re not able to deal with her because you are not able to see her from the right perspective or the right mind set.
Let me show her to you from the angle of a woman who’s been told that she’s ‘too much’ from men all throughout her life.
What’s so wrong about being ‘too much’. What? You’re afraid of her independence and her opinions. You haven’t met a girl like her before I suppose, so she seems to be a bit intimidating. You didn’t look beyond her big mouth and her loud laugh. Her look scared you because you saw her seeing your soul and understanding you. Is that really why you should be running away from her? Because she’s ‘too much’.
She is ‘too emotional’, so what? If you don’t watch out about what you say she’ll start crying rivers in which the pain is too obvious. She’ll be devastated and depressed and her anxiety will kick in, but is that really that bad? She will show you that you are not allowed to talk to a woman with disrespect and she will show you how to love a woman properly. Her emotions will rub off on you and you’ll start seeing the world from a perspective of someone who’s able to love fully without ever wanting to hurt her.
She is ‘too happy’? Can a person really be ‘too happy’? She runs around with flowers in her hair always making you believe that you aren’t defined by the bad that happened to you and that you should always look on the bright side of life. She’s dancing in the rain making you forget about that bad meeting in the morning and about that bad day you had. She’s free and that’s what makes her wonderful.
Being ‘too much’ is what makes her so beautiful. When she walks you can see it in the way her hair is being carried by the wind and the way she looks back at you with that undefined eye-color. You can see it in everything she’s doing – she’s beautiful. Don’t deny it.
And be honest to yourself, her ‘too much’ was what made you so interested. She’s attractive and different, she’s s..y and independent. But the thing is that she is ‘too much’ of all of those things, right? You always look for a woman defining what you want and when you get all that, you run away. You finally have everything you need and it’s not ‘too much’ ,it’s just enough.
You’ll see the way a woman has to be treated through her way of treating you, because she will be too kind, too gentle and too fragile. At times she”lls even be rough, too angry and too aggressive, but it doesn’t mean that she doesn’t love, rather that you have hurt her and that you have to show her that you’re there for her.
She’ll open your eyes to something new, something magical and her ‘too much’ will become the right amount of everything. Don’t be afraid of her loud words and her overwhelming emotions—if she can handle it all than you can, too.
Don’t turn your back on her. But believe me if you do, she’ll cry a bit ‘too much’ and she’ll go through a painful time. Let me just tell you that someone else will come and love her much better than you ever could so don’t waste your time thinking about everything that’s ‘too much’ about her and realise how just perfectly fine it all is.