You’re capable. You’re persistent. You never give up and you have so much energy for so many great things.
The only thing that’s wrong with you at this point is laziness.
Instead of doing something about your life and turning it around for the better, you’re sitting in one place waiting for life to get better on its own.
No one is going to knock on your door and hand you your dream job just because you think you deserve it.
Get up and do something about it!
Everyone knows that you’re as stubborn as hell.
When you get an idea inside your head, no one is able to knock it out.
The same happens when you fall in love with someone.
You convince yourself that you’re not good enough for that person, so you don’t even try doing something about it.
Instead, you choose to sit by and pray to God to send that person to you.
In other words, you’re waiting for them to make the first move.
Nothing or no one will be able to convince you differently.
You can’t go on pretending that you’re totally fine because you’re not.
One moment you’re acting completely happy that it’s ridiculous and the next, you’re depressed as hell for no good reason.
Stop living your life in denial and start working on your mental health.
Engage yourself in getting yourself better.
This is not a suggestion for you to talk to your friends to get your mind off of the things bothering you.
This is really suggesting you go and see a therapist.
You’re too emotional which usually makes you very shy.
You try to hide your feelings for one reason only—you don’t want to get hurt.
The problem is, you’re dreaming of true love but you never do anything about it.
Instead of waiting for true love to find you, get up on your feet, have confidence and find the person who is so desperately trying to find you.
Everything happens for a reason, right? Since you’re a very reasonable person, you should know that’s true.
Yet somehow, your faith in destiny has been misplaced over the years.
The realistic side of your brain took hold of the emotional one.
Please, for once in your life, choose to do something just because you have a feeling it’s the right thing to do.
Please, don’t waste your time waiting for a sign.
The analytical side of your brain is constantly pulling you down.
All the impulsive feelings you have get extinguished by overthinking and revaluating.
You have to realize that the perfect moment doesn’t exist.
You’ll never have a perfect situation to do the perfect thing, so stop thinking about it and just do what you want to do—right away.
Your biggest problem is that you can’t let go of the past.
Stop regretting, stop living in hope that things are going to go back into place.
If something has changed in your life for the worse or for the better, it doesn’t matter.
Accept whatever is coming your way and look to the future.
This goes especially for your romantic relationships.
Stop hoping you’ll get back together with your ex and move on to the next one.
Your problems are piling up, one on top of the other.
The pile seems so big that you have a feeling you’ll never be able to resolve it.
So, as a result, you have stopped trying altogether.
It’s totally understandable to lose hope that things are going to get better when you can’t see anything but problems coming up, one after another.
But the truth is, and you know it, those problems aren’t going to disappear.
They are going to stay there forever regardless of whether you keep your eyes closed or open.
Because of that, start resolving everything and make the pile smaller.
It will get better, one day to the next.
Your fate is only in your hands. No one can make choices instead of you, no one can take your place.
It’s time to stop hiding behind others and start being responsible for your own actions.
Isn’t it better to make your own choices than listening to someone telling you what to do?
You don’t need anyone to come to your rescue.
I know the feeling is nice, the feeling of being rescued but you don’t need it.
You’re perfectly capable of taking care of yourself.
In fact, you’re more than capable of taking care of yourself.
Stop pretending you can’t deal with your sh*t alone and stop making a victim out of yourself.
You don’t need saving.
Relationships are not all there is.
You cannot define yourself by whether you’re in a relationship or not.
That kind of love is not the only love you need in your life.
Please, stop waiting for someone else to love you and give yourself all the love you need.
Self-love is the best kind of love you can get in the world.
Wake up from your dreamy world. Go and live among people who are with both of their feet firmly on the ground.
There are things that need to be attended to.
So, keep that in mind and start doing something about it.
Stop waiting for tomorrow to start working on your goals and start today.