I know how you are feeling right now. I’ve been there and I know what it feels like to be with a man who doesn’t love you. You think that it is just a phase in his life and that he will start loving you when something changes. So days pass by, and months and years. And you are still that sad woman who doesn’t get the love that she deserves.
So you sit there and ask yourself why things had to be so hard. Why the man you loved the most couldn’t love you the same way you loved him. Why loving him has to be so damn hard. And then you cry.
You cry your heart out because of all those sleepless nights you stayed awake to wait for him to come home.
You cry because you have a child with him who doesn’t know what it means to have a love that is divided by a court. You catch yourself explaining to your child that his daddy had to go but that he loves him so much and when he comes back, he will bring him gifts. And then you cry again because even though you are not with him anymore, you are still defending him in front of your child.
So, after all these bad things that you are going through every day, I want to ask you why you don’t think about yourself for a change.
Why don’t you respect your wishes and desires? Because in the end, this is your life and you have every right to be selfish about it.
So, don’t take care of the one who doesn’t deserve you. If he is stupid enough to walk away from you, you should be smart enough to let him go. I am sure that he will never find a woman like you. Girl, you are a diamond but it’s too bad that your man couldn’t see that. So, now is the time to get rid of him and to start living your life to the fullest. I know it will be hard at the beginning but that is just because it is a change.
Just think what your life will be like after living with a toxic man. It will be amazing!
And you know why? Because you will be born again. You will transform into a completely new person; the one who finally feels good when she spends some time with her friends instead of being at home with him and staring at a blank space.
You will actually feel alive again when you see how many new opportunities life gives you. And it is true that you closed one door of your life, but darling, hundreds of new doors were opened for you. So, don’t be afraid to start a new chapter of your life. Don’t be afraid to embrace the change that a new life is bringing within. And never, ever look back.
You deserve more than just a toxic man who will turn your life into a living hell.
You are worthy. You are amazing. You are enough. And never let any man convince you of the opposite.
Just remember that in this new situation you will grow but you will also learn some new things along the way. Don’t stay in a bad relationship just because you don’t know what is waiting for you outside of this one. Now is the time to take second chances so try with your own happiness. Every time you say goodbye to someone, life will reward you with a new hello.
In the end, I just want to tell you one more thing—please don’t think it was your fault.
You were in love with a broken man who didn’t want to be fixed. And I know how many times you tried to help him but he refused your help every single time. So, don’t punish yourself for his sins. He was a man who didn’t see your worth and you don’t need someone like that in your life. So stop wasting your time on a man who can’t provide you with the love that you deserve.
You deserve a love from someone who knows your value and I hope that you will find it. With the right man you will be enough even when you are your worst edition but with the wrong man you won’t be enough even when you are your best edition.
You deserve all the happiness in this world so don’t sell yourself short and instead choose a man whose love feels like home.