What happens after Happily Ever After? Here are the zodiac signs ranked based on how hard it is to stay in love with them – ranked from easiest to most difficult.
Virgo, once the high of the relationship’s novelty wears off, you are by far the easiest sign to stay in love with. Really, when it comes to a relationship with you, the most challenging part is actually falling in love with you, not because you’re a hard person to love but because you’re a hard person to get to know (since your shyness and your overthinking often get in the way). But once someone has fallen in love with you, it’s easy for them to stay in love with you because they feel safe with you, they feel like they can talk to you about anything, and they never stop feeling fascinated by each new thing they learn about you.
Libra, like Virgo, you are also pretty easy to stay in love with. It’s the getting-you-to-commit part that’s the challenging aspect. You’re a little bit afraid of settling down and committing to just one person, but once you finally feel like you’ve met the right person and you decide to go all in, it’s a relationship filled with joy, warmth, laughter, and comfort that never ceases.
Staying in love with a Sagittarius is pretty easy because the relationship is built upon such happiness, joy, humor, and emotional closeness. You really know how to talk to your partner and feel close to them in a very deep way, while always still making room for fun and silliness. Now, you can be a bit overly optimistic about relationships (forgetting that each one comes with its challenges), but when you’re willing to work through problems with your partner instead of avoiding them, it helps you to maintain a long-term happiness with your love.
Taurus, you live and breathe love, so it’s not surprising that you’re pretty easy to stay in love with. The main reasons it’s easy to stay so in love with you are because you are patient, you’re dependable, and you have an incredibly warm heart – it makes anyone feel safe and happy with you. The only reason you’re not higher up on the list, of course, is because of the struggles you have with jealousy and your need for fairly frequent validation from your partner.
Now with you, Capricorn, it is slightly surprising that you’re higher up on the ‘easy to fall in love with’ – but only because you’re often pessimistic and fatalistic in the beginning of a relationship, always assuming the worst. But when you are actually able to work through that and find someone who tells you to cut the crap, you’re an incredibly supportive and dedicated partner, filled with a wry sense of humor and a reassuring sense of ambition.
Most of the time, it’s very easy to stay in love with you Cancer. You have a huge heart, you’re typically the most thoughtful partner anyone has ever had, and you’re such an intelligent and perceptive person. The only reason it is sometimes challenging to stay in love with you is really that you get in your own way – with your tendency to hold grudges and your refusal to let things go even after you’ve supposedly worked through them together as a couple. These tendencies make it hard to stay in a happy and healthy relationship with you sometimes, but when you can work through them, you’re one of the most loving partners around.
Pisces, for the most part, it’s relatively easy to stay in love with you, thanks to your compassion, your sensitivity for your partner, and your ability to see things from their perspective. What’s keeping you from being one of the easiest signs to stay in love with though is that sometimes you’re not quite sure what you want and you tend to waffle for a long time instead of making an active decision when you need to.
As you’re probably aware of, Aquarius, falling in love with you can be hard and tricky because your desire to protect yourself leads to you cutting people off and not letting anyone close. But if you’ve found the right person who helps you to work through these fears, you can conquer them and be the honest, caring, and self-aware person that is so wonderful to be in a relationship with. But if you don’t find the right person or you don’t choose to work through these fears, then staying in love with you is just as hard as ever because you won’t ever let the relationship go deeper than a certain surface level point.
Surprising no one, Gemini, sometimes you’re super easy to stay in love with and sometimes it’s damn near impossible. When you’re actively addressing your own insecurities and making decisions and choices that help you stay at an emotionally healthy level – then being in a relationship with you is exciting, joyful, and even just fun. But if you instead choose to drown in your anxieties and worries and don’t ask for help, then staying in love with you can feel helpless and frustrating and maddening.
Aries, you’re probably not surprised to hear that you’re hard to stay in love with – because even you know how bad your commitment issues are. You love to fall in love but you get freaked out when the love becomes normal and routine and part of your life. You convince yourself that it means you have to stop your adventures (which is not true) and you end up making it pretty near impossible for your partner to stay in love with you when they feel like they aren’t wanted.
Leo, you are your own worst enemy when it comes to chasing your partner away. They fall in love with your generosity, your warmth, your thoughtful gestures, and your enormous heart. But then you let your arrogant and patronizing side come out, the side that wants to control the relationship and make it perfect and always have it your way, and then it is very, very difficult for your significant other to love you the same way that they did in the beginning.
Sorry to tell you this, Scorpio, but you’re the hardest one to stay in love with. You certainly have some great aspects as a partner – you’re magnetizing and exciting, you’re passionate, you’re good at reading your loved one. But it’s difficult for those things to make up for the fact that you’re also incredibly jealous, secretive, possessive, and stubborn about admitting when you’re wrong. Work on those bad habits though, and you’ll be just as wonderful of a partner as any of the other signs.