Strong alpha women are leaders who are ready to protect everything they see as their own. We look like we don’t need anybody in our lives, like we can do everything on our own.
Actually, that’s partially true, but it doesn’t mean we don’t want anybody. It doesn’t mean we don’t want someone to love us.
We have big hearts and we love so hard but we also know what we want. That’s why it’s so fucking hard to find someone who will embrace our courage and our strength instead of fearing them.
We are not here to intimidate you. We are here to be loved and respected because we will do the same for you.
Don’t even bother to date me if you aren’t ready to be challenged. I will never give up on you. I will never say you’re a lost cause because I see things in you that no one else does—not even you. I will use my strength to get you on the right track, so please believe in me. Don’t be scared of my determination because I can help you to be the same or even better.
I will always be there for you when you start doubting yourself. I will step out from my body and our situation and I will look at this from a different perspective and I will, I promise you, find a solution.
I won’t always agree with you. I’m not a woman who will nod her head at everything you say, and I hope you are aware of that. I will stand up to you every time I think you’re not right. I will speak up when I think I have to. I will oppose your statements if I think they’re wrong or if they are going to lead you on a wrong path.
I love you and I won’t let you make stupid mistakes. I will stop you at all costs, even if the price is the hurtful truth. That doesn’t mean I’m cold and loveless. On the contrary, that means I care about you so much and I won’t let anything or anyone hurt you.
I expect us to be honest with each other. I will always tell you the truth. I won’t sugar-coat my words or beat around the bush and I expect you to do the same for me. I will always take care of you with kindness and respect because I know I wouldn’t like it any other way myself.
I want you to be emotionally mature. Don’t even think I will bother dating you if you’re not clear with this one thing. I don’t want to date a boy. I want to date a man. And if you are not satisfied with yourself and if you have unresolved emotional issues, I won’t bother wasting my time on you. I’ve passed those insecure phases of my life and they led me to become what I’ve become today. I don’t need or want to go through that again.
Don’t even bother coming after me if you can’t handle me.
I don’t want someone who still wants to see what else is out there. Let’s get this straight. I want someone who knows what he wants in life. I want someone who has his issues buried and is ready to take another challenge in his life. So, if you’re dating me to kill time until something else comes your way, you can move along instantly.
I don’t have a problem with that, it’s just that I don’t want to be a part of it. Please, if you feel the need to explore some more, be my guest. Maybe it’s not yet time for you to settle down. Maybe your time to grow up and take the next step hasn’t come yet, which is more than okay. But, while you’re at it, exclude me because you might be preventing me from finding someone who is going to be right for me.
I want you to be ready to commit. I want you to be ready to build something with me. I want you to want our relationship to be strong and invincible like we are. I want you to have me and only me because I know I will be more than enough. I will try because I know I won’t be needing anyone else but you. There is no way in hell I’m going to gamble that away.
I will be there for you. I will listen to you when you need me to. I will stand by your side and show it’s perfectly normal to be sad and to cry. I will make you feel safe to be vulnerable around me because I love you.
When you think you’ve fallen to the darkest place in your life, I will give you my hand and pull you out of there. I will push you and motivate you to be better than you are. I will make you want to be the best.
Don’t be with me if you are unsure of what real love is…
I know what love is. I know how to love and when I do, I do it the best. When I’m in love, I love for eternity. When I care about someone, I care unconditionally. If you are not ready to handle me the way I am, don’t even bother trying to have me.
I will give you everything I’ve got, and believe me, I’ve got a lot to offer. I don’t want just an ordinary love because I’m not ordinary. I will show you the love you’ve never dreamed of. I will love you like no one ever did. So, if you’re not ready for me, don’t even bother to date me.