If you are tempted to report to your ex, then you should avoid all these messages.
Separation causes a sort of temporary madness that people usually do not notice or realize when it’s too late.
Either they have already completely distanced themselves from their ex or have become completely pathetic.
That’s why it’s a risk to write to your ex.
Whether you want to recover your ex or not, these 9 messages are the worst you can do to a man after a breakup :
1. Never write to him how the separation has shaken you
When you write a message to your ex, you must never mention how badly your heart is broken.
Because you always have to assume that your messages are not private.
Even if you just write “WHY ???” , you have to understand that it seems strange .
How should he react to your message? “I left you because you’re terrible and I want to have a relationship with Doris?” Or “OMG, you’re right ???” . Believe me, that will never happen.
You have to accept his feelings.
Do not start the conversation as if you are looking for constructive criticism, because you really do that? Or are you trying to tell him how broken your heart is? I bet it’s the latter.
2. Never write something “seemingly” casual, if you know that’s not the case
Do you want him to come back to you? Are you just wondering what he’s doing?
Are you bored?
What is your plan for the future?
Whether your ex wants to hear from you or not, just sending a “hello” makes you look weak and as if you were not sure what happened between you.
I understand that most women send a random “hello” because they miss their ex, but that does not make it any less confusing or frustrating for the recipient of this message.
3. Never write to him that you miss him
If you really want to have your ex back, “I miss you” is something you need to show to your actions over a longer period of time.
Just saying “I miss you” is the elaborate version of “hello . “
Unless he is emotionally ready to face the fact that you miss him or he does not share your feelings, you unnecessarily waste your energy.
If you really want him back, you must first revive the good feelings between you two.
But if you do not want him back in your life, why are you playing with his feelings?
Do not dramatize anything!
In any case, the message “I miss you” sounds like a cry for help that is not successful.
4. Do not show him that you are jealous of his new girlfriend
If you find out that he’s meeting another woman, you should never mention that to him.
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Only a few examples of such messages are:
“Oh, you found a new girlfriend pretty quickly.”
“I hope you’re happy with Sandra.”
“Sandra is a bitch, by the way.”
“How dare you, with my college teacher to go out. ”
” you’ll never be as happy with it to be like me. “
When I write these messages, they seem very inappropriate, right?
If you find out that your ex is with another woman, do yourself and him a favor and leave him alone.
It may be that his current relationship is temporary, but nothing you say will change his mind.
5. Do not blame too much for how good you are
Such behavior is similar to trying to make him jealous, and that’s pretty much immature.
It’s obvious what you’re trying to do with it, and although you think you’ve somehow hidden it, it’s not.
If you did not care what your ex does or thinks, you would not feel the need to tell him how well you are without him …. or?
6. Do not bother him with your news
That’s the worst thing you can do.
If you decide to write a message to your ex, let him answer it and never blame him for his behavior, no matter what he did.
Because that makes you look desperate and frankly, is less more when it comes to the ex.
7. Do not complain about not answering your messages in time
Whether you have a good relationship or not, he will not change his behavior if you constantly criticize the way he communicates with you.
Honestly, after a break, he owes you nothing.
That’s true, whether he was the one who broke up with you or not.
Therefore, when you communicate with him, you have to think positively, because if you criticize him, he will always associate you with negative feelings.
In that case, your name will scare him on screen.
Do not say or do anything that could aggravate the situation.
And think about not having contact with him for a while.
8. Do not try to make him jealous
Such behavior involves making statements about trying to make him jealous, guilty, and ashamed. In reality, everything that you try to make him feel in a certain way.
Keep in mind that trying to make him feel bad about the breakup will not make him answer you next time.
Guilt feelings and feelings of shame are not at all attractive.
9. Do not write messages that you do not want to see everywhere
If you do not want to look pathetic and unreasonable in public, then do not write private messages.
Some things that happened between two people should stay private, but after a split you can not promise anything.
Therefore, if you doubt that he could make something public, then do not write him a message.
I know that after a split, it’s hard to organize and control your feelings, but thoughtless lyrics can only put you in the wrong light and make you feel desperate. Let him see your strength, your self-esteem and your positivity, if you want to make a good impression on him.