If you’re wondering how to make a man fall in love with you, you’re definitely in the right place!
Given that you’re here, I’m assuming you’re head over heels for that one guy whom you can’t stop thinking about. I totally understand you because, believe it or not, I once was in the same boat as you and today I’m here to reveal all the secrets and tricks that will help you make him fall madly in love with you (in no time!). So, let’s get started!
First of all, when it comes to making a guy fall in love, many women make that one terrible mistake and that is trying too hard to win him. But the truth is that a man’s brain is wired completely differently which means it requires another more suitable approach.
The worst thing you could do is to go out of your way on the very first date and make him think that you’ll do anything to win his heart. If you do this especially in the early stages of dating, you will definitely not make him fall for you.
What you need to do is give him some space to chase you instead! You see, a man wants to know that you have your own life and that he needs to make an effort to win you.
When he realizes what an awesome, confident woman you are, you will make him fall in love with you!
Remember that it’s all about the little things. Your body language, sense of humor, even your social media profile and the way you perceive life and the things around you all play an important role when it comes to making him fall head over heels for you.
Summarized, in order to make him fall in love with you, you need to love life and fall in love with yourself first.
If you do all of this, you will attract the right guy for you and establish great foundations for a loving, long-term relationship. You will be one step closer to experiencing true love.
(Okay, enough babbling!) Let’s check the following 15 tips that will help you understand how men fall in love and, more importantly, how to make that one guy fall madly in love with you!
HOW TO MAKE A MAN FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU: 15 EXPERT TIPS
Just remember to apply the following tips in accordance with your personality and preferences. Some of them will work better for you than others, so the key is in finding the right ones that you feel comfortable with!
1. Be pleasant and smile often
The golden rule to attracting any guy is to be positive and love life. What does this mean? It means always being pleasant and smiling often to show that you’re enjoying life and spending time with him.
You see, men fall for women who know how to chill and stay cool even when it is really hard to do so. There is something really magical about a beautiful, sincere smile on a woman’s face which has the power of attracting almost anyone.
They say that you attract what you think and you receive what you believe which means that your aura is the most powerful thing in your possession. So, if you’re wired positively, you will attract such things as well.
If you believe that he’ll fall for you, he definitely will. By thinking positively, you will attract anything you want and he will not be able to resist your aura, which is a prerequisite when it comes to making him fall for you.
2. Let him miss you
One of the most important things to remember when it comes to winning his heart is to let him miss you. No matter how much you want to, don’t go out of your way to always be there for him whenever he asks you out.
Don’t be easily available (especially in the early stages of dating) because if you do, you will not succeed in making him miss you!
The secret to a man’s heart is in balancing things. If you make him miss you, he will want you more and vice versa and that is why it is important to let him know that you are not available 24/7. You want him to know that you are willing to find time for him but he’s definitely not your top priority.
And, as a result, he will respect your decisions and he will appreciate every second spent with you. He will also start making efforts to become your number one priority. You will win his heart by motivating him to win you. Now, isn’t that just brilliant?
3. Be authentic
Many women think that guys fall only for those women with perfect bodies, perfect make-up and everything else. But, this is not true at all. Remember that to win a man’s affection you don’t need to be perfect. Instead, you just need to be authentic!
Now, what’s the difference between the two? The biggest difference is that being authentic is all about being yourself and not giving a damn about what others will think of it.
If you show him your own unique qualities and flaws, you will show him that you’re not afraid to show who you really are. And there’s nothing sexier or more loving than that! Being authentic means nurturing your own ways and habits and not being afraid to say what you really mean.
This is also important when it comes to a long-term relationship because to be able to genuinely care about each other means to be free to speak your mind no matter how hard it can sometimes be.
4. Compliment him and admire his masculinity
Let’s get one thing straight. We all love to be complimented and admired for our certain qualities and abilities and it is not true that women are only supposed to receive compliments and barely ever compliment men.
On the contrary, it is highly desirable that a woman admires a man because that will make him feel desirable! And if a man feels desirable, he will definitely start falling for you!
So, next time you spend time with him, make sure to compliment his choice of outfit, his new haircut, his gentleman manners and his willingness to make you feel special. Also, don’t forget to compliment his masculinity as well! When he helps you with lifting something heavy, admire his strength.
When he holds you in his arms, admire his masculine body parts. If you do all of this, you will win his heart within seconds because men love to feel needed and wanted. They love to be praised for their masculinity and other qualities that can benefit you, so why not use this to your advantage?
5. Be confident and have standards
Another crucial thing to remember is to always be confident and have standards. This means feeling good in your own skin, walking proudly and believing that you can achieve anything you want (because you really can).
It also means not going out of your way to please anyone and not putting up with anybody’s bullshit. It means demanding him to respect your final decisions instead of letting him change your mind easily.
A man wants a woman who knows what she wants and who oozes with confidence. Remember that he doesn’t want a perfect woman. He wants a woman who has her own opinions on different things and who will be brave to contradict him when it is needed.
When he sees what a powerful woman you really are, his heart and mind will not be able to stop thinking about you. He will want to spend as much time as possible around you because you will be his muse and his biggest inspiration.
6. Have your own life
Men fall for women who live their lives like a boss. They want to know that you have other things going on in your life as well, instead of just going out with him.
They are crazy about women who nurture their hobbies, spend their time in nature, nurture their friendships and have certain goals that they want to achieve in life. It is that sheer will and fire in your eyes that they are madly attracted to!
In their eyes, there is nothing more powerful than a woman who is ambitious and determined to succeed in any aspect of her life. But don’t get me wrong. Having your own life also means spending time alone and recharging yourself from time to time.
When he sees that you’re not afraid to be on your own, he will realize what a strong woman you are. He will be grateful to you for giving him space for himself, which will all result in a loving relationship.
7. Dress attractively
I don’t think there’s any need to repeat that men are visual creatures but I’ll say it again just to make sure to accentuate it enough. So, if you want to attract a man and win his heart, one of the things you will have to do is dress to impress.
When it comes to dressing attractively, remember that it is all about the little things and details, like the colors of your outfit or lipstick, the material it’s made from and how it fits you.
To make a man fall for you, you need to wear fine materials like silk, red, black, green or purple colors and choose your outfits wisely so that they benefit your shape. With the right outfit, it doesn’t matter if you carry a few extra pounds because it will accentuate all the great parts of your body.
The main secret to dressing attractively is feeling good in your skin and highlighting it with clothes that embrace your figure and demand attention.
8. Be a little mysterious
The importance of remaining mysterious is some of the greatest relationship-advice out there. It is because men are crazy for what you are not giving them instead of otherwise.
They fall in love with your absence and not your presence as you might have thought. Now, the biggest question of all is how to succeed in preserving your mysterious status?
You will do so by applying the following things. When it comes to social media, you should never reveal everything about yourself!
Avoid posting your every meal, every second of your life or every thought because if a guy knows everything about you, you will not give him the space to be eager to learn something new about you. So, next time you are about to post something, think about these things before doing so.
Another thing, when it comes to going out for the first time, do not immediately tell him your whole life story. It’s all about finding the perfect balance. By telling him enough to intrigue him, you will keep him interested and he will want to hear and learn more about you. The same thing applies to online dating.
9. Work on your eye contact
They say that we all fall in love through our eyes. I guess eyes are like the middlemen to our soul and that is why it is important for you to work on your eye contact and your body language in general.
Some more great relationship-advice is to look him deeply in his eyes when he’s talking to you because that will let him know that you’re there and you’re listening to him! Also, if you feel comfortable looking other people in the eyes, it means you’re feeling confident which is another plus when it comes to attracting him.
If you don’t feel that comfortable about locking your eyes with someone, you should start working on it immediately. Letting go of your insecurities will help you boost your confidence and attract him in no time.
Everything is ten times more powerful when it is said in the moment, when your eyes are connected, and that is why you should use this to your advantage. Just think of a situation regarding online dating. When you text something to that one person and then say the same thing in person, the latter option is far more powerful, am I right?
10. Show off your talents and skills
If you’re a man/boyfriend reading this, you have probably wondered a billion times before now about how to make a girlfriend fall in love with you. And you probably chose a shortcut and that was showing off your talents and skills because you wanted to impress her. You see, ladies, the same thing works with men as well!
If you want to win his heart, you have to show your special talents and skills (the things that you’re really good at). So, letting go of your routine will be the first step to achieve this.
Think about trying different interesting hobbies that will shape your talents and skills. Think about learning a new language or even playing an online game (yes, guys are crazy about girls who are a little bit nerdy).
Show him what you’re good at and you will win his heart by impressing him. Just remember not to boast about things because it will have a countereffect. Always put your humble side and wittiness in first place.
11. Don’t always agree with him
Yup, believe it or not, the shortcut to making a man fall for you is in contradicting him. When it comes to conversations, talk to him like you would talk to your best friends.
Always make sure to let him know your perspective on things instead of just nodding to every single word he says. Know that if he’s the right guy for you, he will respect your opinions and he will demand to hear what you think about certain things.
If he’s made a final decision about something and you think he’s doing the wrong thing, you should never be afraid to acknowledge it to him. Men are crazy about women who are capable of bringing the best out of them and force them to think critically.
The worst thing you could do is tell him that you don’t agree and then change your mind about it. If you do this, he will think that you’re indecisive, which will make him rethink why he fell for you in the first place.
12. Let him know you’re thinking of him
Do you know the feeling of excitement and content when you get home from the first date and the moment you jump into bed you find it impossible to fall asleep because you can’t stop thinking about him?
You see, to capture a man’s heart means not only making him think of you, it also means letting him know you’re thinking of him as well. It is all about those little reminders on a daily basis that will let him know he’s on your mind (but make sure not to overdo it).
You can send him a text message, writing something funny that has happened to you that day, you can tell him about a situation where something reminded you of him or simply let him know that you miss him.
When he reads it, he will instantly start smiling and thinking about you as well. And the more he thinks of you, the closer you are to his heart!
13. Let him make you laugh
Yes, in order to win his heart, the only thing you need to do is let him make you laugh. Easy, right? So, when he tells you a joke or retells funny past events, the only thing you need to do is show him that you understand the joke and laugh your ass off. If you do this, he will feel powerful for succeeding in making you laugh.
Also, many women think that having a sense of humor is a man’s job but men like to laugh, too! So, if you laugh at his jokes and at the same time you’re capable of making him laugh, he will be crazy for you in no time.
The more you laugh, the more you’ll feel like best friends which is the foundation when it comes to making a man fall for you and become addicted to you!
14. Listen when he talks
Another misconception about men is that they don’t care about being listened to. On the contrary, men love when a woman is absorbing their every word because it’s in their nature to want to show off their qualities (especially when going on a date for the first time).
Once a man feels understood and listened, he will feel closer to you. Summarized, you will capture his heart and soul.
Also remember to pay special attention when he’s talking about the things he likes to do, like playing video games, or his hobbies, sports and similar. By simply listening to him, you will make him feel like a superhero and that is what men want to feel!
They want to be praised for their achievements and bravery (be it in real life or in video games) and the only thing you need to do is just show some amazement and curiosity.
15. Be patient (don’t push it too hard)
Sometimes we become too desperate to finally enjoy the charms of true love that we forget to be patient in the process. We forget that every loving relationship has been built on trust, patience and effort. So, if you want to win this man’s heart, you need to remind yourself to be patient and not push it too hard.
I understand that you’re crazy about him and that you’d do anything for him but in order to achieve a certain level, first you need to become best friends. A man will lose his mind for you when he sees that he can rely on you, that he can tell you anything he wants and that he has some space for himself.
Once he realizes what an amazing and confident woman you are, you will become the first thing that comes to his mind when he wakes up and the last thing he thinks of when he goes to sleep. You will become the love of his life!