Have you ever felt like you’ve reached your breaking point? Like you can’t do it anymore and like you’ve had enough?
Enough of the wrong men entering your life, enough of trying to be strong and tough by yourself, enough of toxic assholes who want to ruin you, enough of failed relationships and enough of heartbreaks?
Have you ever been one step away from completely giving up on love? One step from accepting that you’re not meant to be loved and that you’ll never find your soulmate?
Well, this is exactly when you need to keep going. This is the moment in your life when all of your strength is tested and the moment when you have to be braver than ever.
And you know why? Because this is God testing you.
This is God testing your faith and your desire for good things. God testing your ability to love and above all, testing your patience.
I assume you don’t believe this now but trust me when I tell you this: God has a plan for you and for everyone in this world. Yes, the truth is that sometimes we can’t grasp that plan but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist.
God has your entire life figured out. He has a man prepared for you, a man who is your destiny and a man who is made only for you.
No, this guy won’t be perfect. However, he will be right for you and that is all that matters.
He will be everything you were looking for, without even knowing it. He will be your other half and your missing piece of the puzzle—someone to complete the parts of you which you didn’t know were missing.
However, you won’t meet this man when you want to. He won’t enter your life just at the moment you find appropriate.
No, he will come to you once you become ready. He will come along once you become the woman he needs and once he grows to be the man you need.
And you know why? Because God always has the perfect timing.
He will send you the right person at the right time. It may happen when you start to think you’ve given up on love altogether or when you lose all hope that your forever person even exists.
It might happen after you go through a few more failed relationships which will serve as lessons to you. After you meet many more wrong guys who will serve as preparation for this one who is the only one right for you.
When this man comes along, all of a sudden, everything you’ve experienced until that point will make perfect sense. You’ll see that your entire life was nothing more than part of a bigger scheme.
You’ll realize why all of those hardships had to happen to you and why all of those toxic people came near you at one point because if it weren’t for them, you’d never appreciate the right one.
When this man comes along, all of a sudden, you’ll understand why it didn’t work out with any of your exes. You’ll be grateful for every time you were cheated on, for every time you got dumped and for every time you had your heart broken.
Grateful for all the closed doors and for every time you didn’t get what or who you wanted. Grateful for all those times you thought you’d lost someone who you thought was the one for you and grateful for all your struggles.
You’ll be grateful for every obstacle along the way and for every stepping stone that brought you here. For all the difficulties and challenges you had to face along the way because you’ll be aware that if things hadn’t turned out exactly the way they did, you wouldn’t have reached this point.
So, please, don’t fall into despair. I promise you that your light at the end of the tunnel awaits you, despite all the darkness that is surrounding you now.
Just be patient and have faith. Have faith in God, for He always knows what He is doing.
And please, have faith in yourself.