For women, men are complicated and mysterious. As a result, women and men can never fully understand each other. So when it comes to dating a man, how can you know what he expects you to do? And above all, how can women know what men really want in a relationship?
It must be clear to us that every man is different and each person has their own preferences, expectations and priorities. Some prefer blondes while others prefer brunette women. Some men love when a woman has curves, others like petite ladies. One in two men will be very attracted to the women who are loud and love to be among people, while other men are interested in calmer and shy women.
There are always these men who will choose resolute and stubborn women, but there are those who want a woman who needs time to make decisions and who is not so impulsive. The list of men’s preferences is really big. It’s all a matter of personal preference and decision. But it is undeniable that there is generally something that every single man expects from a woman.
In the TV you probably see infinite contributions that make you believe that it is only important to the men, how big your breasts are or what your butt looks like. But the women are not allowed to get involved. It may be that she turns to such women and makes her fantasize crank, but that’s just a game for her and it’s by no means requirements that she places on a friend.
It is an unrealistic representation of what men expect from a woman, for the truth is that men are looking for much more than that. There are things that men are really attracted to, that they really respect and admire in a woman.
If you’re a woman who has not had the best experience with men lately, then maybe you’re wondering how to do it better. You may be thinking about what you could do better the next time you go out with a man you want to impress. Here are the things that a man really looks for in a woman:
1. A man wants a woman who appreciates him
A man is attracted to a woman who understands him like no other human being. Men really appreciate a woman who respects them for what they are and what they do. They love to have a woman by their side who makes them real and unfounded compliments and who thanks them for the real things and not for superficial things.
They love being appreciated for their manners, their courtesy, their hard work and so much more. Men long for gratitude, but since they like to play macho, they will never say it out loud. They are looking for someone who loves and understands them. That’s why women should value their husbands for the things they do right in life. Men want women to be proud of them.
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2. A man wants a woman who respects him
Self-confident women respect each other more than anything, and thus they automatically respect the special man in their lives. They make sure that the man at your side feels appreciated in every way. Men have a tremendous need to be deeply respected and a great desire to be taken seriously.
3. A man wants a woman who does not control him
Most men will be happy when they have the opportunity to care for their wives and fulfill their wishes. They will want to do the things in their own way, and if you give them the freedom and time they need, they will do everything with determination.
But, if it happens that a woman orders around, then the man in a relationship will not feel well. Because honestly, no one likes it when you tell him what to do every step of the way.
Controlling is poisonous to a man and in these situations he feels that he is unable to do the things he has set out to do. Such behavior will also suffocate him, and thus he will only desire to go as far as possible.
But that does not mean that you should always allow him to do what he wants. Because a man should listen to you, if your opinions and concerns are extreme. The line between controlling the partner and mere utterance is narrow. Therefore, just make sure that you do not exceed this limit.
4. A man wants a woman who helps him to be a better person
Men will know that they have found the perfect partner when they feel close to this woman. This is the woman who leads by example, constantly challenging him to also be a better version of himself. It is the woman who spreads positive energy around her and does not revel in eternal negativity. A woman who treats a man in a way that enhances his self-esteem is a woman every man wants in his life.
Men are really no hormone-controlled wild animals that are just looking for the one and only want to have hot women by their side. Well, there are exceptions, but do not worry, they will learn their lesson because they will never find happiness. But the majority of men also long for love, understanding, security and connection, as we women do.
So stop smiling about your character, your accomplishments, or just that you’re not a Partyqueen personage that everyone admires and adores. The only thing you need to give a man what he wants is a healthy self-confidence. When you are happy and balanced, you have the material to knock the men off their socks.