All women around the world want to know the same thing, “Does he love me?”
They try all the ways to find out if their partner has strong feelings for them and if he loves them the way they love him.
Even if it is very hard to find it out, I believe that time is essential here.
Only when you spend time with someone can you get to know that person better and find out how much you mean to them.
You shouldn’t listen to what your crush says to you, but what they do for you because actions always speak louder than words.
If you are giving all of yourself for someone, you should expect them to reciprocate.
But if you don’t know if love is what they feel for you, I suggest you read some of the most common signs that you are the woman of his life and that he is interested in you and you only.
Does he love me? Well, check out!
1. The way he looks at you
If you were wondering if your guy loves you, just pay attention to the way he looks at you.
Every guy in love has that puppy look he can’t hide, no matter how much he would love to.
If he looks at you like he’s never looked at any other girl, you can be positive that he is head over heels in love with you.
He might say that his feelings are not so strong and that he wants to go easy, but his body language will tell you all you wanted to know.
Just one look into his eyes and you will immediately know his real feelings.
2. He pays attention to what you say
If a guy really listens to all that you have to say, it is a sign of his deep love for you.
He will listen to what you have to say, no matter how girly that topic might be.
He will listen to you and even ask you some questions about things that happened to you.
He will want to know all about you because it simply fascinates him the way you talk about everyday experiences.
He won’t be bored when he is with you and the time he spends with you will be the best spent time.
He will enjoy talking to you and he won’t be able to wait to see you again.
Also, if he calls you often, it is a sign that he wants to know more about you and that he is happy the moment he hears your voice.
This is something you can’t fake, so rest assured because this man is crazy about you.
3. He protects you
If your guy makes an effort to protect you from anything bad that can happen to you, it means that he wants you out of harm’s way.
It is a proven sign he loves you and that he would do anything to make you feel good and safe.
He knows that there are some things you can handle alone, but also things you would appreciate a little help with.
That is when he shows up. He will be there to let you know that you can always count on him and that he will always try to help you.
And even if he can’t help you with something, he will be a shoulder you can lean on so you know you are not alone.
And you must admit that we all handle some things better just by knowing that someone is thinking about us and that someone cares about how we feel.
So, if your guy always makes you feel safe and secure, you can be positive that he has strong feelings for you.
4. He calls you often
Every girl will ask herself, “Does he love me?” sooner or later, but you just need to pay attention to your guy to find out more about his feelings.
Does he call you often? Does he call for no reason other than to say hi?
If the answers are positive, it is a proven sign that he really loves you and that you are the apple of his eye.
There is probably nothing he wouldn’t do for you and your happiness is much more important than his own.
He wants to make a long-term relationship with you or even meet your family because you are the most important part of his life.
A man like this knows that you are the one and he would do anything to make you happy.
5. He puts you first
It is really a big thing when a man puts you first. It means putting your own well-being and happiness in front of his.
It means choosing you every single day and being okay with it.
When a guy puts you first, it means that he loves you and only you, and that he doesn’t even look at other women.
A guy who puts you first is sure about his feelings and he doesn’t have any problems showing them to the rest of the world.
So, if you have someone like this in your life, there is no need to worry that he doesn’t love you because the truth is the total opposite: he is truly, madly, and deeply in love with you.
6. He worries about you
When a man is in love with a woman, he will worry about her problems like they are his own.
If you tell him that you have problems at work or that you are stressed out, he will try to comfort you by talking to you.
He will always let you know that he is available for you and that he will be there no matter what happens.
He won’t feel good until your problems are solved. If it hurts you, it hurts him too because of his deep feelings for you.
Just know that a guy like this is rare and if you have someone like him in your life, make sure to be good to him because he is really a keeper.
7. He is your best friend you can tell all your problems to
If you have a guy who is your best friend you can talk to whenever you feel bad, just know that he is the real deal.
A guy like this is hard to find, but once he comes into your life, you will never have to worry about not getting enough love again.
He will give you more love than he has ever given and he will never make you think if you aren’t enough for him.
A guy like this is someone you can tell all your problems to. Know that he won’t blab about them to anyone, but that he will keep your secret.
Even if guys like this are hard to find nowadays, I am sure one of them is waiting for you right now.
8. He rather spends time with you than with his friends
If your man wants to spend more time with you than with his long-term friends, it is an undeniable sign that he loves you.
Just think about it; his friends have been a part of his life longer than you and no matter what kind of fun history he has with them, he would rather spend time with you.
That means you are a special person in his life and that he wants to get to know you better.
And he surely doesn’t mind spending the whole night up talking about his life and listening to you talking about yours.
Every word that comes out of your mouth is like the most beautiful poetry to him and he could listen to you forever.
Trust me, someone who acts like this is really in love with you and you don’t have to worry that he has someone else.
In fact, he has eyes for you only.
9. He has strong eye contact
If he has strong eye contact, you don’t have to ask yourself, “Does he love me?” because it is obvious he does.
If he looks at you while you are talking and if nobody can take his attention away from you, worry no more because you just won the man of your dreams.
He listens to you because he likes the way you talk and move.
He wants to capture every move that you make, even if it is just the moment you stop talking to take a sip of water.
He sometimes looks at you in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable because it looks like he is eating you with his eyes.
He simply can’t get enough of you and it looks like you hypnotized him.
If he feels this way, I just hope that you like him too and that you can reciprocate his feelings.
10. He enjoys kissing and hugging you
You will easily know that he loves you if he tends to kiss and hug you all the time.
A man in love will want to be close to his loved one all the time and show her how much he loves her by touching her, kissing, or hugging her.
If you have all of these, you are very lucky because your man is madly in love with you.
Trust me, no man would ever shower you with kisses and hugs if he doesn’t have strong feelings for you.
But the one who does it all is in love with you and he would do anything to make you feel special.
Men like this are scarce, so make sure that you also show him how much you love him.
There won’t be a happier man than him if you show him that you feel the same way.
11. He trusts you
Trust in a relationship is a huge thing. It is hard to gain, but it is so easy to lose. Couples who have gone through trust issues know it very well.
But if you have a partner who trusts you and to whom you don’t have to explain everything you do, you should consider yourself lucky.
Having a partner who supports you and who believes in you is very important in every relationship.
It means that he loves you and that he wants you to have your life, your friends, and your freedom.
He doesn’t want to forbid you do things that make you happy.
If you want to go on a road trip with a friend, he won’t have anything against that because he trusts you and he knows that you won’t do anything that will harm your relationship.
Trust me, having a man like that is like being the happiest woman alive.
12. He opens up to you
If you still worry whether or not he loves you, just think about the things the two of you talk about.
If he tells you his darkest secrets and opens up totally, it is a surefire sign that he is in love with you.
He sees you as a confidant he can tell all his problems to, and he feels good when you listen to him.
Maybe you are the only person he opens up to, since guys are known to be pretty closed about their feelings.
If your partner acts like this, you can be positive that he sees you and you only, and that he has no intention of spending time with other women.
He has found his happiness, his true soulmate, and he is happy with the fact that he will spend the rest of his life with you.
13. He often surprises you
If you keep asking the same question, “Does he love me?” all the time, you should just pay attention to the way he treats you.
If he always treats you with love and respect, gives you gifts, surprises you, and makes you feel special, he must be in love.
Only a man in love will do all of these things for a woman.
Guys don’t normally act so romantically unless they are head over heels in love with someone.
So, if you have a partner who surprises you and who does everything in his power to make you the happiest woman alive, keep him because he is the type of a man who knows what a woman needs.
14. He sacrifices for you
If a guy makes a sacrifice for you, it means that you are a special person in his life.
He won’t do something like this if he doesn’t have strong feelings for you, that is for sure.
But if he does something nice for you and doesn’t ask for anything in return, he is the one.
Only a special man, the one who loves you with all of his heart, will do something unselfishly, and he won’t even tell you he did it.
He does it with pure love and he feels good about it because he does it for the right person.
15. He makes you laugh
If a guy tries to make you laugh every time you are with him, it means that he wants you to have a good time when you are together.
He wants you to feel comfortable and enjoy every second that you spend with him.
Maybe he will make a fool out of himself so you would laugh or he will tell you some jokes that you might find hilarious.
The thing is that he puts in an enormous effort to make you like him even more.
He is aware of the fact that he is falling in love and he doesn’t want to let you go, so he is ready to do all in his power to make your moments together fun and interesting.
16. His body language reveals all
Does he stare at you while you talk, not even blinking? Does he lean forward and whisper something in your ear? Does he touch you?
If all of these are answered with a “yes,” it is just a sign of how much he is interested in you.
Maybe he wouldn’t like you to know immediately that he is in love with you, but he simply can’t hide it. His body language reveals all.
It is so cute to see him blushing when he is trying to say something romantic to you.
If you just look deeper in his eyes, you will see that he is madly in love with you.Only a man in love can look at you in that way.
Trust me, there is no better feeling than being the only woman he is interested in.
That is something that makes every one of us feel so special and desirable. And nothing can ever compare with that.
17. He chases you even if you are already his
Do you know how couples get stuck in a routine in long-term relationships? The old spark is gone and they don’t have time for each other anymore.
On the other hand, there are guys who never stop giving their attention to their partners because they want to make them feel special.
If your guy is like that, you should be happy because he is one of the rare guys who chase their partner even if she is already theirs.
If you are in a long-term relationship, but your guy still steals kisses from you while nobody is watching, if he tells you how hot you are in that new dress, or if he makes love to you the whole night, just know that you have a very special man in your life.
He is truly a keeper and you shouldn’t let him go.
18. He respects you
Having a guy who respects you is a huge thing in every love relationship.
There are so many relationships where couples stop respecting each other over time.
Some of them take their partners for granted, thinking that they will stick around, no matter what.
Some of them believe they have been together for too long and that it is normal to lose some respect.
But trust me, respect should be present at the beginning, during, and until the end of a relationship.
By “end,” I refer to “until death do us part.” I always love to say that respect is what stays after love slowly vanishes.
You can’t be in love with your partner on the first day, but you will feel respect and mature love that never fades away.
Having a guy who still cares and respects your wishes is like you have won the jackpot. It is so rare and only a few people get to experience the beauty of it.
19. Your opinion really matters
Does your guy always listen to what you have to say? Does he ask for your opinion when he is faced with a tough decision?
If your answer is “yes,” then he really loves you. In fact, you are the most important person in his life and he is not afraid to admit it.
He will listen to what others have to say about something, but with you, he will solve all his problems.
He believes that you are the only one who wishes him the best and that you will always go the extra mile to help him no matter what happens in his life.
Also, if he asks for your opinion, he thinks you are smart and that you will be able to solve any problems that occur.
And yes, in that way he is actually complimenting you.
20. He always keeps his promises
A guy who keeps his promises is a guy who is serious about you.
It is a proven sign that he cares about you and that he wants to develop a meaningful relationship with you.
He doesn’t want you to feel bad because he didn’t show up on time, even if he said he would.
He doesn’t want to say anything that could hurt you. He doesn’t want to neglect you or make you feel like you are not good enough.
Instead, a guy like this will be someone who will give you wings so you could fly to wherever you want.
He will be your biggest support, your best friend, your human diary, and your lover all in one. He will be the one who always stays and never leaves.
21. He compliments you
If you are wondering if he loves you, and you see him complimenting you, there is no need to bother your pretty little head about it anymore.
He does, and he shows it with so many compliments about the way you look or think.
Only a man in love would give compliments many years after you started dating each other.
The reason he treats you like a queen is simple – he simply adores you.
He loves everything about you and he wants to shout it from the rooftops.
I am not saying he won’t think that other women are attractive as well, but he already knows that you are the whole package and he is so damn lucky to have you in his life.
22. He says you bring joy into his life
Is there better proof that a man is in love with you? I don’t think so!
If he always tells you how lucky he is to have you and that is the reason for his happiness, you can be sure that he loves you.
In fact, without you, his life wouldn’t be so good as it is when you are with him.
Men are very difficult at expressing their emotions, so when a guy opens up like this, it must be love.
He just wants you to know that you are an important person in his life and that you bring happiness whenever you show up in front of him.
You don’t have to say anything, you can just sit next to him and he will still be the happiest man alive.
Your presence makes his heartbeat slow down and he feels so peaceful when he is with you.
That is something you can just feel with the person who means the world to you. So, FYI, you are the one.
The one and only he wants to be with. And don’t you ever forget that.