When you break up a love relationship you are probably trying to figure out what went wrong and why it didn’t work.
If you still love your ex, you will be interested in his life even if the two of you are not together anymore.
It is the truth that you don’t have anything to do with him but a piece of your heart still belongs to him. So, you catch yourself stalking him online, showing up at the same places as he or getting information about him from his friends.
And you desperately want to know if he still has any feelings for you.
You want to know if he has already moved on and found another girl or if he is still interested in you.
If you want to know these things or even more about your ex and things he thinks of, keep reading because I will reveal some of the most common signs he is still not over you.
1. He wants to be in touch
The truth is that when you break up with someone, you don’t want to see that person or know what they are doing in their lives.
But if your ex still tries to be in contact with you, it means that he still has some feelings for you and that he regrets leaving you.
He will realize that he was a fool for letting you go and he will try to be in touch, so he can make some moves to win you back.
2. He is trying to explain that he didn’t want to hurt you
If he reaches out to you, trying to explain why he broke up with you, it means that he feels sorry that you are no longer his girlfriend and that he still hopes that there is hope for the two of you.
Just the fact that he still wants to talk about the two of you can tell you that he loves you but is scared to admit that.
3. He doesn’t date anyone
You were probably thinking that he will find another girlfriend once he breaks up with you but he didn’t do that.
Instead, he still tries to be close to you and he is not interested in other women. Even if there are some attractive girls around him, he still seeks you in every one of them.
He realized that he lost the good girl and now he is willing to do his best to win you back again.
4. He stalks you on social media sites
If you see him ‘liking’ your posts or photos on Facebook, you can bet that he knows every step that you make.
He is simply interested in you more than he thought and this is the way he shows that. Also, he might be trying to reach out to some of your friends to just ask about you.
If this is the case, you can be positive that it is only a matter of time when the two of you will be together again.
5. He is jealous when another man approaches you
Despite the fact that the two of you already broke up, he can’t stand that another man is in your presence.
He still considers you his girlfriend and he wants you to know that. He doesn’t feel ashamed to make jealous scenes when you are around because he knows what he will get by doing that.
He will get what he craves the most – YOU!
6. He calls you drunk
You know that saying: “In vino veritas!”? Well, if your drunk ex calls you in the middle of the night telling you that he still loves you and that he can’t live without you, you should believe him.
Because of the alcohol in his blood, he has the need to tell you what he actually thinks and in that way, feel better.
But the problem is that he will be hungover in the morning, feeling sorry for making a fool out of himself in front of the only person he truly cares for.
7. He sends gifts
Sending gifts has always been a good way to win a woman back. But it depends if all the expensive gifts are really worth all the pain that you went through.
If your ex tries something like this and sends you gifts or flowers, you should know that he is not doing that just like that. He has a plan and that plan includes you.
He simply wants you to feel good and he wants himself to be the reason for that.
8. He asks you to start over
The most obvious sign is when he actually asks you to be with him again. He just figured out that he made a mistake when he let you go and now he wants to start over.
If he tells you that it was all his fault and that he will improve just to satisfy you, you can bet that he still loves you and that he wants to be with you.
By losing you, he saw what it feels like when you lose your soulmate and he doesn’t want to live like that anymore.