You often do not know that you’re in the wrong relationship until you get one that turns out to be right …
What makes love interesting is the fact that you think you know exactly what it is, until you meet someone who completely changes your mind about them. You learn that this love changed you, that it improved your life and that it was worth it to wait for it.
And you learn many other important things. Here are some of these things that you will only experience when you are with the person you want and want to be with.
1. Love feels effortless.
Yes, relationships require a lot of effort. But still, love is just a word. But what most people will never tell you is that when you have a right relationship, love seems very effortless.
When you are in the right relationship, it feels so natural to be with your partner. It seems as if it would be inevitable to choose each other and as if any other option were not possible. Of course, every partner has a lot to do, but in a real relationship everything looks relaxed and feels that way.
2. After a quarrel, you come closer and want things to get better between you quickly.
In a book on relationships, I’ve read that it’s very important that the partners understand each other’s habits while still wanting their love to last.
But how do you recognize the difference between a relationship that will fail and one that will last? When two people who honestly love each other, they both have a desire to change, to come closer and to work on their relationship, so that it works better than before.
The question is not whether you will argue with your partner or not. Because every couple argues and probably more often than you think. The question is whether you will distance yourself after the quarrel or try to be better for each other.
3. You regain confidence in every area of your life.
If there is such a thing as a happy one to the end of the world, it most likely refers only to the seismic shift that happens when you meet someone with whom you truly and completely feel loved.
Not only do you retreat into your own enclave of passion and mutual obsession, you also neglect any other part of your life. In the right relationship, every part of your life improves. In every way you thrive more than before.
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4. Well-being becomes even more attractive than passion.
Of course you need both in the right relationship, but with the right person, you learn that passion is not so important and you can have it with many people in your life.
Well-being or the feeling that you can be happy with a person every day is what you rarely find. And that is something that has no price. In the end, well-being is what makes a relationship happy.
5. You heal childhood wounds.
In the right relationship, you will experience one of the most important things in life – the sense of security. Often this causes childhood memories to come back to life. Sometimes these memories are the reason why you and your partner behave in the relationship like children. And in some cases, people will project their deepest trauma onto their partner.
Regardless of what happens when you feel really safe and loved, it is that you begin to work on your deep-seated problems. You question the relationship you have with your parents. You are less afraid of the unknown. When you are with this person, you feel free enough to explore what you have suppressed for so long, and that changes you deeply.
6. You are beginning to believe in the time of your life.
When you’re young, and before you can really see where your life is heading, it’s easy to worry about what your life will look like in the future.
When you make a right relationship, it often reminds you that you have been on the right track the whole time. It reminds you that the love that did not work should not work either. It reminds you that if you relax and give her a chance, everything will be fine.
7. You win back the joy of life.
Many people think that finding love will make them rediscover their romantic self, and so it does for a while. But the right relationship will do something even more profound and you will find your inner joy again.
In the right relationship, you will feel as you used to when you were young and open-hearted. But more importantly, it will make you feel that way even if you are not with your partner.
This feeling in itself is one of the most amazing differences between the right and wrong relationship. The right one makes you happy all the time, while the wrong relationship only makes you happy when you’re with your partner.
8. You feel completely different, but still you are much more aware than before.
You should not change yourself because of love, but love should change you naturally. That’s part of their magic.
In the right relationship you will feel that you are somehow completely different from the past, but also much more aware than ever. You will feel that so much has changed and the things that are left will show you what is really important.
The love of your life is not just someone who will love you until the end of your life. This person becomes your next, most important, and most influential force. The influence of the right person makes your life the way you have always wanted it, even outside the relationship …