No one wants to be in an almost relationship but sometimes that just happens. Maybe we just meet the right guy at the wrong time but maybe both the timing and the guy is wrong. In case you were a part of an almost relationship or you are currently in one like that and you want to move on, there are some things that you need to do.
You need to feel good for leaving such a relationship and you need to feel the peace that you crave so much once you let go of everything. To make everything much easier for you, please follow these tips and finally live the life you deserve.
1. Don’t contact him
The most important thing that you need to do is to stop contacting the man you left because if you reply to his phone calls and his texts, he will think that there is still a chance for the two of you to be together. If you really want to heal and recover from him, you need to stay away, as far away as you can from him.
In case you have a crisis and you desperately want to speak to him, try to do something to avoid that, like calling your friend to come over or going out to distract yourself a little bit. The trick is that you need to do everything in your power to stay away from the one who couldn’t even fight for you and the one who couldn’t be brave enough to love you.
2. Find happiness elsewhere
I know that you think your boyfriend was the main reason for your happiness but it is time to be real now. He didn’t give you what you deserved and he never will. That’s why you need to get over him and let him be with someone who will love him the way he is. And you?
You are strong enough to find happiness in different places. There are so many beautiful things that you can do, so start doing them right away. Don’t get depressed about one bad choice. There is a life ahead of you so use your time wisely. I am sure the right one is waiting for you somewhere and that with him you will finally feel the love you crave so much.
3. Accept that you didn’t get closure
I know that you feel bad because you didn’t get closure but that is something that happens when two people start feeling indifference. And I know that you feel like you will never find a man who will cherish you enough for you to give yourself all in but trust me, there is nothing to worry about.
Bear in mind that things happen for a reason and just because your last relationship was a failure doesn’t mean that your next one will be a failure as well. Just remember how many good things you have to offer and don’t be sad because you couldn’t be loved like you deserve. If you are patient enough, there will come a man who will show you what real love is and he will never let you go.
4. Don’t jump into a new relationship right away
The worst thing that you can do is to jump from one bad relationship to another. You need some time to recover from your last relationship and to accept what happened. Don’t let a good-looking guy make you be with him or to have s*x with him. That is the last thing that you need right now.
You need to find yourself that you lost a long time ago and you need to start feeling good in your own skin again. Once you feel that you are ready to move on, do it but wait until then.
5. Forgive yourself
I know that you are not guilty of anything but the fact is that you stayed in a long-term relationship longer than you wanted. So, forgive yourself for staying with the wrong man for such a long time and learn to live with the fact that you will sometimes make bad decisions.
Whatever you do, don’t let your past define you because you learned from your mistakes and you are not planning to repeat them again. Finally, forgive yourself because your only sin was that you fell in love with the wrong man.
6. Stop caring about him
The fact is that he doesn’t care about you so why would you care about him? Maybe you still love him but you are trying to be as far as you can from him, but that doesn’t mean that you need to care if he is okay or not.
Trust me, he can handle things on his own and he doesn’t need anyone to help him. Instead, take care of yourself and do things that make you happy. Now it is your time to shine and that is what you need to have in mind every time you remember him.
7. Learn to love yourself
You know how you always begged him for some love? Well, now it is the right time to let go of that and give yourself the love you deserve so much. Because baby, you don’t need a man to complete you or to give you what you need. You just need someone who will be your best friend for better or worse, someone who will support you in all of your decisions.
So, learn to love yourself because that is the best thing that you can do for yourself. If you don’t love or don’t respect yourself, nobody else will, so make sure that you start doing it as soon as possible. Once you do that, you will feel totally complete.