You’ve seen these dashing and charismatic men portray leading roles in movies and TV shows. They always seem so amazing and magical. You read about these kinds of men in the romance novels that you indulge in every so often. And you wonder about why you haven’t found such a man in your life just yet. Well, here’s the thing, it’s possible for you to fall in love with a guy and still not be able to make things last with him.
Yes, amazing men are everywhere. That’s why it’s so easy to draw inspiration from these guys in real life to come up with fantastical fairy tales and Hollywood movies. However, having an abundance of amazing men isn’t the same as having an abundance of men who are right for you. Sometimes, no matter how great a guy might turn out to be, he isn’t necessarily going to be the one who is going to love you forever.
Love is something that you fall into so easily that sometimes, you make the mistake of thinking that sustaining it is going to be just as simple. But that is rarely ever the case. That’s why there are so many couples that break up in spite of the fact that they still love one another. That’s why there are so many people who still drift apart even though they say that they commit to each other for the rest of their lives.
Love isn’t a stagnant thing. Love isn’t a constant. It’s dynamic. It’s always changing, growing, and evolving – the same way that human beings do. And if you can’t find love with the right person, then it’s very likely that love is going to just fade away. That’s why choosing a partner is always so important. You can be completely in love with a guy in one minute and have that love completely vanish over the course of a few weeks.
When you’ve decided on who you want to be committing yourself to, you have to make sure that you are choosing to be with someone who is serious about being with you. You have to make sure that you’re deciding to commit to someone who is actually going to commit to you as well. You want to fall in love with a man who would have no problems with loving you forever no matter how hard or challenging things might get in the relationship.
That’s why you are going to want to keep an eye out for certain traits and qualities in a guy that you might be dating. If you notice that a lot of the traits listed here apply to your man, then consider yourself lucky. You might have already found “the one” and it’s important that you do whatever you can to make sure that you don’t let them go. Here are a few qualities of a man who is definitely going to love you forever.
1. He admits to making mistakes and apologizes for them.
He is humble enough to own up to his shortcomings and say that he isn’t doing a good job in the relationship. And he always shows a willingness to learn from his mistakes as well.
2. He shows a willingness to compromise with you.
He really does show a willingness to make certain adjustments just so he can accommodate you into his life. He doesn’t want to make it seem like he’s self-centered and that he only cares about his own needs.
3. He doesn’t withhold his love and affection for you.
He doesn’t look to play any emotional games with you. He’s not interested in playing coy or hard to get. He doesn’t try to make you jealous. He wears his heart on his sleeve for you. He doesn’t hold anything back with his feelings and emotions.
4. He makes you feel valued and appreciated.
Your efforts with him are never going to go unappreciated or unnoticed. He’s always going to make sure to express his gratitude and appreciation for everything that you might do for him or the relationship. He would never want it to seem like he doesn’t take notice of everything that you bring to the table.
5. He treats you like a real equal.
He doesn’t belittle you or demean you. He doesn’t see you as some kind of woman he can boss around and manipulate. But he doesn’t put you on a pedestal either. He doesn’t idealize or romanticize you. He sees you for who you really are – his partner and his equal.
6. He opens up to you about the most intimate aspects of life.
He doesn’t just open up to you, but he really does let you in. He makes sure that you know that he isn’t hiding anything from you. He wants you to feel comfortable being yourself because he’s showing you that he’s willing to be himself when he’s around you. He lets you see him for who he really is and not just what he wants you to see.