Try to be the first thing he thinks of when he wakes up and the last thing he thinks of when he goes to sleep. Wouldn’t you like to be sure that your guy is missing you like you’re missing him?
Relationships would be so easier if you knew for sure that he misses you and thinks about you all the time. But, of course, things don’t work that way, so you are left to wonder whether he likes you as much as you like him.
If you really want to keep him hooked on you and think about you all the time, first of all you have to have self-confidence. You have to feel good about yourself and let that feeling show.
People will get you in a different way when they see that you love and respect yourself.
Let go of the crazy tactic of ignoring him and his calls because sometimes he won’t wonder why you didn’t call. He’ll just assume that you are busy and leave you alone. So, this doesn’t work all the time and in fact, you can deliberately distance yourself from him.
Instead, if you really want to make him think about you as you do about him, try to do some of these things:
1. Tease him before work
If you start teasing him in the early morning, he will think about you the whole day. Pretend like you are searching for something and bend a couple of times so he can enjoy your back. Also, wearing something short would make the atmosphere hotter and he might call his office to tell them he is sick and that he needs some time to recover. And guess who will ‘help’ him in that adventure?
2. Remain mysterious
If your guy knows all about you, he will be quite bored in no time. So, keep some things for yourself. If you went out with your friends, he doesn’t need to know about all the details you did. That is something reserved for girls only and if you tell him that it was a nice night out without any details, it will make him think about you more. Maybe he will even wonder if some guys were hitting on you or if you were flirting with them.
3. Be independent
There is nothing more s..y that a strong and independent woman. She knows what she wants, when she wants it and whom she wants it with. Every man will be attracted to a woman like this because they will admire her and watch her handling life situations in the easiest possible way. If you think that you are not strong enough, pretend that you are in front of him. Don’t ever let him think that you are just a puppet he can control but be proud of what you are.
4. Kiss him longer than usual
Is your man leaving the house and trying to find the car keys? Take them, put them in your shirt and tell him that he needs to earn them with one kiss. After he leans to kiss you, don’t let him escape so easily. Kiss him more than usual in the most sensual way that you know. And when you see that he wants more, just ring with the keys in front of his ear and remind him that he is late for work. This will definitely make him think about you the whole day and he won’t be able to wait to come home.
5. Touch him (in a way only you know)
When you touch him, don’t let it be a normal touch. It has to be something that will give him chills, but at the same time, he will feel good about it. Also, if you know the places he is highly sensitive, try to touch him gently there and I am sure that he will think about your touches the whole day. It is true that he likes all your touches and he will always feel good when you do that.
6. Text him (but in a specific way)
The goal when you text him is that he thinks of you for the rest of the day. So, do it in a way that only you know. Tell him that you have a surprise for him when he comes home but don’t tell him what you are preparing. You can just hint that it includes you (without clothes) and some food. He will be so turned on and he will count every minute until the end of the work day to come home and see what you prepared for him.