Do you have the constant feeling that something is wrong with your relationship? Maybe your partner has been acting pretty strange lately and you don’t know what he thinks about you and why he is acting so distant.
Do you feel that no matter what you do, you simply can’t satisfy him and that feeling is eating you alive? If you answered yes to these questions, it is a sign that your partner isn’t over his ex yet.
Maybe he is trying his best to hide it but there are some sure-fire signs that can reveal all his intentions.
1. He still talks about her
If your man mentions his ex all the time, it means that he thinks about her a lot and that she still matters to him. This is a huge red flag sign that he is not over her, so you should worry about your relationship.
You don’t deserve his half-assed love so he better make up his mind before he loses you completely.
2. He compares you with her
If your man told you that you should do some things in a certain way just because his ex did them like that and not just because he prefers them done that way, it is a sign that she is still an important person in his life.
He is still into her but won’t admit that and you are in his life just to make it easier to get over her. This is something you shouldn’t tolerate, no matter how much you love him.
3. He talks about their past
If you catch him talking about interesting things that they did in their past, with a smile on his face, it is a sign that he is not indifferent to you. He still misses her and wants to be with her but he is scared to admit that to you.
If he truly loved you, he would never mention her name (except in a bad context) so it is up to you whether you will tolerate that or not.
4. He still texts her
It is not okay if your man spends the whole evening texting his ex and you just sit there feeling bored. A man who is in love with you would give you all his attention because you are the only important one.
However, if he doesn’t pay attention to you but can’t wait to get another text from her, it is a sign that he is still not over her. That is so disrespectful and you shouldn’t tolerate behavior like this.
5. He calls you by her name
Did you have a situation where your partner called you by his ex’s name? If yes, there is no doubt that he thinks of her a lot and that he is still not over her.
Sorry to burst your bubble but a man like that will never be completely yours, so you better leave him while you still can. You deserve someone who will love you and only you.
6. He still has her pictures on his phone
If your man has pictures of his ex and him at different places they visited, it means that he still has some feelings for her. He is certainly not mad at her and he would probably be happy if she would give him a second chance.
If you are in a situation like this, you should know that there is nothing to hold onto anymore and you should leave him and find your own happiness in a different place.
7. He gets mad if someone else dates her
In his head, she is still his girl and he can’t go against his feelings. If he sees another man hitting on her or even dating her, he will start hating him immediately.
Even if he is with you physically, he is with her emotionally and that is what counts the most to him. If I were you, I wouldn’t waste my time on a man like that and I would let him go as soon as possible.
8. He can’t commit to you
Do I have to give you any reason other than this one to let him go? If he is not ready to commit to you, it means that unfortunately you are not the most important woman in his life and that he would want to get back with his ex.
An almost love is not what you deserve so you better leave him because he will never be able to give you the love you crave if he is still into her.
9. He doesn’t talk about your future together
If your partner doesn’t want to talk about your future together and if he doesn’t feel good when you mention things that you would like the two of you to do, it can be a sign that he still longs for his ex.
Maybe he thinks that he is over her but his actions speak differently. In the end, if he has to choose between the two of you, don’t let him choose you because if he ever loved you, he wouldn’t have done that in the first place.
10. Your gut tells you something is wrong
If your inner voice tells you that he is not serious about the two of you, you should trust it. Women are known for having a sixth sense and as far as I am concerned, it has never betrayed me.
So, if you feel that something is wrong even if your man is trying to convince you that there is nothing you should worry about, you should think twice about if he really is the right one for you.